Today's horoscope:
Joint finances and any money matter closely related to loved ones can be potentially touchy topics. This means you may need to take a firm stance toward anyone (especially family members or old friends who have a habit of hitting you up for loans) who hasn't proved to be financially responsible in the past. While you might feel momentarily guilty for not helping them out, the amount of trouble you've saved for everyone more than makes up for it.
I recently helped Jade (my special Army buddy) out financially. This was in many respects a HUGE mistake. At the same time...I'm glad I did! It has helped me see just how incredibly selfish she can be and how much I have been blind-sighted in our relations. First of all, she called me all of 3 times in the last 2 weeks. 2 of those times were to ask for my help financially (which I rendered imediately) and once to respond to my request for her help (ie. use of her truck) which she took her sweet-ass time rendering. Then when I ran into her the other night at Sue Ellen's and I said, "Hi!" to her, she responded with the universal sign for: "Talk to the hand cuz the face ain't listening!" and told me she would, "Be with you in a minute!" Haha. She never said hello and never came around to talking to me at any point in the evenning. These things have been bugging me for these last couple of days.
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